So here at the Shameless Blog we’ve started talking about the proliferation of the “poptarts.” You know who I’m talking about: the bad girl “pantyless celebrities,” the train wreck girls arrested for DUIs and even the “modest” ladies of Hollywood talking (a lot of bs) about how they’re not “angry feminists.” It seems we’re bombarded daily with news that LiLo’s been arrested (again) or Britney peed with the door open at a photo shoot. Why all this madness and why do we all care so much? It’s a shift in our culture and the media is desperately looking for a reason why the bad boys of Hollywood are suddenly all girls:The trend has sociologists and fame-watchers alike wondering what is going on. One possible explanation is that the rise of the Bad Girls is simply a reflection of the generally increasing power and visibility of women in all fields of entertainment…
At the same time there is a wider social acceptance of bad behaviour by young American girls. America is caught in the age of Girls Gone Wild videos which would have been unthinkable a few decades ago.
-Paul Harris, The Observer
Sure there are some fantastic musicians and actors of the female persuation who deliver great messages (like Beth Ditto of Gossip fame,) but they always seem to fly just slightly under the radar in the realm of popularity. It really seems that everywhere you look in the mainstream some young woman is falling apart infront of a telephoto lens. So my question is: Where’s a girl to go for her empowered mainstream girl idols?
Well, to the idol herself. I submit to you exhibit A:
“I’ve sold more than 15 million records worldwide, and still nobody listens to what I have to say. Because I’m 25 and a woman…”
-Kelly Clarkson, Elle Magazine
I used to very quietly say that Kelly Clarkson was my guilty pleasure but now I’m just going to out myself, scream it from the rooftops and tell you all that I think she’s the best kind of breath of fresh air. Oh yah, and I’m in love with her. With the launch of her most recent album she faced the worst kind of sexist criticism (crap) from record execs who wanted to toss the songs she wrote herself. What did she do? She talked about it. A lot:
“Everybody doesn’t like me writing all the time, no matter how many No. 1’s you write. It’s clearly like yelling at a brick wall….It’s because I’m a woman — because I’m a young woman.”
“I am a good singer, so I can’t possible be a good writer. Women can’t possibly be good at two things. I haven’t lost my temper about it. It only drives me more. If your thing is to bring me down, cool. I’ll just work harder.”
She also talks about a lot of other cool things. Like marriage: “I’m not keen on marriage. I don’t let many people in. Men come and go. Friends are what I care about.” And being called fat: “You’re just like, Oh, well, that sucks. But at the end of the day, it doesn’t suck that much or else I’d do something about it. I work out when I want to work out; I don’t work out when I don’t want to work out. After a long day and I’m tired, yeah, a cookie helps. It makes me feel good.” By the way, the new album that has been so contraversial and criticized? It’s amazing and mostly because it’s all her.
But wait! Kelly’s not alone in her injection of a little mainstream feminism. I submit exhibit B:
“There are too many stupid girls in the media. Hermione’s not scared to be clever. I think sometimes really smart girls dumb themselves down a bit, and that’s bad. I’m a bit of a feminist. I’m very competitive and challenging. When I was 9 or 10, I would get really upset when they tried to make me look geeky, but now I absolutely love it. I find it’s so much pressure to be beautiful. Hermione doesn’t care what she looks like.”
-Emma Watson on Hermione Granger or Harry Potter fame.
I think sometimes “angry feminists” like me forget that there are ladies in the mainstream pop and film world that are really fantastic role models for their young fans. After all these DUI charges and peeing with the door open scandals, I thought we could all use some reminding…
Can anybody else remind us of some strong women in mainstream media?




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I have a soft spot for Kelly Clarkson, and I never knew why. Thank you for enlightening me to the contents of my own heart, Stacey May...
Beyonce has an all-girl band that appears to be made up solely of women of colour! Ciara does drag and has awesome lyrics! Pink: see song "Stupid Girls"! Tina Fey: see Mean Girls! Kylie Minogue!!! (Okay, I have no evidence for why Kylie Minogue is such a hero, but I have similar warm feelings for her as I do for Kelly Clarkson...maybe you can do some sleuthing Stacey May). The Spice Girls!! Rachel McAdams!!! (I am working on upcoming posts to explain exactly why I love these ladies). And Lindsay Lohan. I love Linday Lohan. I know she's done some funny things, but my faith in her is unshakeable.
I like what Emma Watson says, but I wish so-called smart girls would lay off the "stupid girl" rhetoric. There's so much pressure to be stupid and misled and uninformed and ignorant. There are so many more rewards for it. I do think it's more useful to look at the roots of why some girls act stupid, than to just blame them for being stupid. And also, as with Avril Lavigne, there are lots of rewards for calling other girls stupid and distancing yourself from them so as to assert power.
Take Britney for example - why does no one talk about how her doctors say the root of her self-destructive behaviour is post partum depression? That's a pretty heavy duty mental health condition that doesn't get enough attention.
It's not just that she's stupid! My heart bleeds for Britney. I'm rooting for her.
Posted by Thea
July 30, 2007, 1:26 PM
Although I am not Emma Watson and therefore can not say exactly what was meant by her quote, I think she was speaking of stupid "fictional" girls and media as in "films and television." So I don't think she was saying that any particular girls are stupid, only that women are depicted as stupid and Hermione is quite the opposite.
Having said that, I totally agree with "laying off the rhetoric," I just think Watson was critiqing depictions, not women.
I'm so with you on Britney. When she shaved her head my reaction was "awesome." Now I'm like "fame is a rotten thing."
As for LiLo, I think she's as drunk and screwed up as anyone, she just looks more so because the pap manage to catch every single moment of her existence. That infamous picture of her passed out in the front seat on the car? Show of hands: How many people have been in that position in their early twenties?
I'll go figure out why you like Kylie now. The only thing I can come up with right now is that gay men love her, and in my books a million gay men can't be wrong.
Posted by Stacey May
July 30, 2007, 2:26 PM
One reason to like Kylie Minogue: when she started out in the music industry she signed on with Stock, Aitken and Waterman, who were in the business of churning out glitzy, highly produced pop acts. They were responsible for her early hits at the beginning of the 90s. But then she rebelled, unhappy with the way the team had basically controlled her musical direction and public persona in order to sell records.
After her contract with the team was up, she left to pursue her own interests—which included fantastic songs with Nick Cave and Towa Tei (aka that Japanese guy from Deee-Lite, who's actually very good on his own as well). Ever since then she's arguably done things for herself, without a svengali team or a record company telling her what to do.
Posted by Wesley
July 30, 2007, 6:05 PM
And also, and also, she can't dance!! Which is why her videos are always so creative and interesting - it's because they had to figure out ways to mask the fact that Europe's preeminent dance pop diva can't dance! Necessity is the true mother of invention.
Posted by Thea
July 31, 2007, 11:57 AM
I think another great role model in the media is Natalie Portman. Her movies are great, first off (come on... who doesn't secretly love Star Wars?). She is also a Harvard grad who put her acting career on the side to get an education. (She has been quotes as saying "I'd rather be smart than a movie star."). She is an Ambassador of Hope with FINCA International, which promotes helping women-owned businesses in poor countries. I wish that the entertainment industry had more strong women like Natalie Portmen making headlines. Unfortunately, doing well in school and studying doesn't get attention the way partying does.
Posted by Evey
August 2, 2007, 2:55 PM
Just wanted to let you all know that the very last issue of JANE magazine (on newsstands now) actually has an interview with Kelly Clarkson in in it where she talks a lot about the things I've mentioned here.
For me Clarkson in JANE is like, well, ice cream cone and fluffy bunny rabbit bliss.
Sorry, I know I'm a dork.
Posted by Stacey May
August 2, 2007, 3:16 PM
I want to second the Natalie Portman vote. After I saw the faux "gangstar" rap video she did for SNL, I was COMPLETELY in love! If you haven't seen it, you must google (or find on MySpace) "Natalie Portman rap video". Totally. Awesome.
Posted by Nazrafel
August 3, 2007, 10:56 AM
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