Good morning to all you Saturday surfers :). Today I’d like to bring some attention to this troubling article from yesterday’s Globe and Mail - Faceless no more: Social networking comes with a price.
The basic premise is one we are familiar with: “Young Canadians share too much information online and they don’t understand the risks involved - or care about their privacy.”
“During a two month-long investigation, The Globe and Mail tracked more than a dozen Canadians through their open social networking profiles, and used freely available web tools to build detailed profiles of each individual user.”This not just a speculative moral panic, the Globe actually went and stalked some young Canadians, all in the name of privacy? Whatever sells your paper, right?
The real problem however is not the data-mining (although as far as I am concerned that’s pretty creepy), it’s how the gender of the youth providing the data is framed. Let’s call it the “the naive sex kitten” versus “wild party animal” bias.
Let me give you two examples from which I have kindly removed all reference to gender.
Example 1:
A 19-year-old keeps a sexually explicit Nexopia profile where they write about their baby girl, father, and brother. Although it does not list their full name, the account has photos of the user with their daughter. Some of the things the user likes to do include talking to their mother, shaving off someone’s eyebrow when he or she falls asleep, and “trying” to talk on the phone while under the influence of magic mushrooms.
Example #2:
To celebrate the end of school, a fourth-year University of Toronto student, who has a private Facebook profile, posted in a public events section a map to their Collingwood, Ont. cottage and left a cellphone as the contact information.
Alrighty, I know this is getting long but let’s put the gender attributes back in:
Example #1:
A 19-year-old Edmonton woman keeps a sexually explicit Nexopia profile where she writes about her baby girl, her father, and her brother. Although it does not list her full name, the account has photos of her with her daughter. Some of the things she likes to do include talking to her mother, shaving off someone’s eyebrow when he or she falls asleep, and “trying” to talk on the phone while under the influence of magic mushrooms.
Example #2:
To celebrate the end of school, a fourth-year University of Toronto student, who has a private Facebook profile, posted in a public events section a map to his Collingwood, Ont. cottage and left his cellphone as the contact information.
These are not the only two examples that insist on framing women’s decisions to publicize information about their lives or their bodies as sexual invitations, while framing men’s disclosures as invitations to home invasion. It is a common thread running through the entire article. Apparently when men post public information about their lives it is their property at risk and for women, it is our/their bodies. There’s a hybrid example that illustrates my point further:
Example #3:
A 20-year-old Edmonton man is one of several who create public event listing for their birthday, and post any one, or all, of a home address, cellphone number, driving directions and other relevant information. A 16-year-old girl from Peneticton, B.C., for instance, suggested a black-light party where people draw on each other in the dark. And a 21-year-old Vancouver woman held her birthday at the Vancouver Aquarium and posted a schedule of events that she and her friends would attend. (2:15 p.m.: Sea Otter Talk.)
Okay, so.. following the sea otter talk, let’s see if we can find some time to be harassed by Facebook stalkers? Seriously. Notice how the example of Mr. Edmonton is all about home addresses, and driving directions, whereas the examples of both Ms. Peneticton, and Vancouver involve less direct, though no less suggestive references to bodies and boundary problems related to intimacy and social harassment.
What is more invasive from a “respecting and understanding someone’s privacy” perspective? A 16-year-old posting a black light party for her friends, or a reporter framing that party in a national newspaper to make it sound like an invitation to an underage flesh fest? Where is the respect for a young person’s right to have whatever damn kind of party they want, regardless their gender? Were I still 16-years-old with a profile on MySpace or Facebook, I would feel judged, and frankly a bit ashamed of myself just for wanting to be considered an attractive, sexy and interesting person to my peers. That just isn’t fair, and it’s not responsible journalism.
As far as the Globe and Mail is concerned the worst a boy can expect is that their end of term house party will turn into a rager, or they’ll get fired from an after-school job they never liked anyways. Are the lads in this post being judged for their apparently over-sexed behaviour? Of course not. With the exception of the obligatory; “Young men define their masculinity by how many pretty girls they can add to their list of friends”, young men are primarily portrayed to be at risk of well, having too much fun - oh damn that’s a tough one. The irony here is that as feminist scholar Sandra Weber has pointed out in her research on teenagers online lives, much of the compliments and sexually explicit chit-chat that frames girls’ pictures of themselves looking h0tttii3eee comes from their female friends.
There is an important layer to young female exhibitionism online that the Globe and Mail hasn’t considered. Regardless of the privacy settings, online profiles are safer spaces for young women to get positive feedback for their individual sexuality and attractiveness. Positive feedback that, generally speaking, is missing from a mainstream media that pays more attention to models and movie stars, can really instill in young women the sense that their own un-airbrushed bodies are less then perfect. Mainstream media, as this article more then adequately demonstrates, is actually pretty scared by young women’s sexual desires. Sure TMI is based on reality TV, sure it makes people uncomfortable, the nice thing though, is that it’s also some much needed positive re-enforcement from members of one’s own community. Let’s balance that against the knee-jerk judgments offered by this article, and frankly I am more inclined to side with the girls posting pics of themselves in a hot tub.
Young women are at risk when they live in unsafe communities, when their sexual freedom is portrayed as “asking for it” and when they do not receive the love, support and care that they deserve from their family, their friends, and also, from the world at large. Portraying the young women “researched” in this article as naive and foolish puts them at greater risk because it contributes to the myth that they are simply there to be taken advantage of.
In closing, the article deals a death blow to young ladieezz’ freedom to be foxy on the web. In an interview with a young woman who is on her way to college, the reporter explains that he has built a very explicit profile on her life based only on her public web-based disclosures. He suggests that she could be at risk for a variety of unsavory privacy violations; from identity theft, to online stalking. She is justifiably worried and thus resolves to be more careful in the future. The article closes with:
“I’m obviously not going to put down my address and where I’m going to be every five minutes,” she said. “Or my class schedule. That’s the kind of thing that would bother me. If I had my course schedule on there … because people already know what university I go to.”But she still might get her boyfriend to take a look at her profile’s privacy settings one more time.
Just in case.
Is it 1956? Do women still need men to make sure they’ve locked their doors at night? When will the insistence on portraying women as incompetent users of technology stop? This is especially infuriating coming hard on the heels of an article that frames them as naive potential victims of harassment, stalking and rape due to their use of new technologies. Despite fears around public disclosure, young women are smart, capable and know how to take care of themselves online - without help from the boys. Why the Globe and Mail chose to portray the female subjects of this article as it has speaks more to public anxieties around young women’s freedom and sexuality than it does to any real concern for their safety.


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I'm... not really with you on this one. The examples you gave didn't seem obvious to me. I read the Globe's article and I didn't find their framing to be problematic. It addressed what they found. It addressed what I find on Facebook too.
People are posting tons of personal info on Facebook. Facebook is set up so that anyone who writes an application has access to all of the info of the people who a) add that application, or b) are friends with someone who adds that application. This is widely known in the tech community, but not in the Facebook community.
Women are pushed to market themselves sexually (in a way that guys are not), and they do that a lot on Facebook. Who has the sexy pics up when I look through my network? Straight female friends and gay friends. Not really surprising when you think about it. Male gaze, anyone?
Rapists, stalkers, etc... they target women, 99% of the time. Identity theft affects us all.
There is a lot of naivete about privacy concerns on the Net. People treat it like a private message board between friends, like they're passing notes in class, and it's not the same thing at all.
Do women still need their boyfriends to check their privacy settings? No, clearly not, but we do still live in a context where guys are encouraged to learn technology more than women. I know way more guys who understand how to change privacy settings than women. It's not cool, and it's changing, but it's certainly still there. I don't think the Globe was saying "there, there, dear, let your boyfriend help you out." I think she responded that way and they reported it.
To sum up, women *are* being 'foxy on the web', and women *are* disproportionately targeted for sexual harassment and rape and stalking, and few of them understand the privacy concerns. I don't hear the Globe saying "stop it, you sluts", I see them saying "maybe think about shielding your foxy self from the assholes out there".
Posted by Heather Ann
September 14, 2008, 9:50 AM
Some interesting reading on the subject:
Kids, the Internet, and the End of Privacy from New York Magazine. I thought it was a really smart take on the traditional question, "why don't teens protect their privacy?" by saying that maybe privacy doesn't matter any more—or at least not in the same ways as it did before.
The Future of the Internet (and How to Stop It) by Jonathan Zittrain. It's pretty dry and a bit academic, so take it out from the library and read the last few chapters for the discussion of privacy and personal data.
As for this post, I also think the Globe's intent was not to demonize anyone's personal choices. (full disclosure: I know two of the people who wrote this story.) It perhaps does play on traditional privacy fears by suggesting the myriad ways in which your information is available and could be used against you, but that's far from suggesting that women should stop expressing their sexuality on the internet. Heather Ann's pretty much summarized my views on the topic, and better than I would have, so I'll leave it at that.
I forget where I read this, but I've had an interesting idea bouncing around in my head the past few days: that in earlier societies, the absolute secrecy around the details of your personal life didn't exist—people knew what you were doing at all hours, and who you were doing it with. What was called privacy then, we'd call discretion now: the idea that private information, though known, was not to be discussed in public or used to compromise someone.
What's interesting is it seems we've come full circle back to the very same concept: people posting all sorts of personal photos and data on Facebook that are only intended for close friends, and then feeling betrayed when someone not in that inner circle airs their dirty laundry. People increasingly don't seem to want absolute privacy (no one must know my secrets), but for people trusted with information to practise discretion (no one must discuss my secrets openly).
Posted by Wesley
September 14, 2008, 10:35 PM
I was an LIT (leader-in-training) at my camp this summer, and they gave us a talk about if we're applying for staff, we shouldn't have incriminating stuff on facebook. They were all "How would you feel if someone you admired, you saw them on facebook wearing a revealing outfit??!?!"
To which I thought, "Dude. One of the adults I look up to the most used to manage a sex shop. Hello."
I mean, people should be smart about what they post, but I'm not going to be all "OMG!!! BAD!!1!1!" if someone's wearing a mildly revealing outfit, fer chrissakes.
Posted by Lindsay
September 15, 2008, 5:12 PM
Hmm yes,
I *heart* that New York Times article, sent it to my thesis advisor when it came out.
I don't think I was trying to suggest that women aren't more targeted than man in a sexual way, or that this isn't a problem.
What I am suggesting is that the G&M; by not taking a hard at look at the gendered subtext of the writing, is furthering certain ideas that may in fact contribute to beliefs about women and their capacity to make wise choices, and take care of themselves. Article from major dailies get spins that makes it interesting to readers, in this case I feel that part of the spin was the idea that girls get stalked and boys get in trouble. In fact if I am going to be even more troublesome I'd say pullquotes about nudity and talking on the phone while on shrooms do more to get readers than to accurately portray girls who use Facebook.
Furthermore, telling a girl not to put up pics of herself in a bikini because she may get stalked is akin to telling that same girl not to wear a bikini to the public pool because she may get stalked. The point being *it is not her fault if she gets stalked it is the stalkers problem*.
Which brings me to the whole thing about:
"Women are pushed to market themselves sexually (in a way that guys are not), and they do that a lot on Facebook. Who has the sexy pics up when I look through my network? Straight female friends and gay friends. Not really surprising when you think about it. Male gaze, anyone?"
I think young men are invested in how attractive they appear online and how masculine, so it can't just be girls who are growing up too quickly in a media saturated environment.
What I would like to underscore, as I said in the post, is that in this article, young men are told they should watch their actions and their movements, and women are told they should watch their bodies, and I think that is a weirdly gendered understanding of the issues that face both young men and women who spend a lot of their lives online.
Posted by Mir
September 16, 2008, 9:18 PM
I suck at trackback links. >< But I just finally linked this post in something I wrote today.
Posted by Thene
September 30, 2008, 4:03 PM
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