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On The Job
Girls, some advice: be hotter, work less, and shut up

Penelope Trunk is a Boston Globe and Yahoo! Finance columnist who’s been giving out tips and advice as the Brazen Careerist. The basic idea is she tells you what it’s really like in today’s workplace, and that you can hack the system by following her tips—which no longer involve such old-fashioned concepts as “climbing the ladder” and “paying your dues.” Which is fine—even hearing those phrases puts me in a bit of a 1950s American Dream mindset anyways.

Some of her recent columns have put people in a tizzy. A couple of weeks ago she doled out her tips on office etiquette, which included adding your CEO to Facebook, keeping your headphones on all the time, and always always be available on the weekends for work calls. Whether adding your boss to your Facebook is really a way to get ahead careerwise, I couldn’t say, but I’m skeptical.

And speaking of the 1950s: the next week, she came out with another doozy: The New Girl’s Guide to Workplace Success. The whole column is good for some laughs, but I’ll leave you with this one tidbit:

3. Expect harassment, and stay cool.

A recent segment on New England Cable News reported that 46 percent of summer interns will be harassed. And most professional women will experience some form of sexual harassment in their career — some studies even say as many as 80 percent of them.

It’s clear, then, that most women don’t report harassment. But it isn’t because they’re scared — it’s because they’re smart. The laws are very clear on what companies should do to respond to harassment claims, but they aren’t very clear on how to define when a woman has been illegally fired for reporting harassment.

The careers of most women who report harassment suffer, even if the company works hard to do the right thing. The law is too far behind the times, so don’t report harassment.

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Body Politics
“What should happen to women who have abortions if abortion is illegal?”

Let’s ask these anti-abortion protesters in Libertyville, IL:

( The video above’s been removed, probably because it wasn’t posted by the filmmakers; they’ve posted it here.)

It’s interesting because most discussions of abortion usually involve people on either side yelling at each other, trying to convince the other side they’re wrong. For the most part, this video seems different—the really interesting protesters are the ones who seem to grapple with a side of the abortion issue they’ve never actually considered before.

(via Metafilter)

All About Shameless
Welcome to the new server!

If you’re seeing this message then you’ve successfully made it to the new Shameless web server. Nothing’s changed with the site—just a whole lot of technical housekeeping on our end. Now back to your regularly scheduled program, already in progress.

Geek Chic, Media Savvy
Exposed

Do you know Allison Stokke? Hundreds of thousands of internet users do. Up until recently, if you did know Stokke, it was probably because of her athletic accomplishments; she’s a high school senior with an outstanding track and field record and an athletic scholarship to a state university. But now those accomplishments have arguably been overshadowed by a picture of her from a year ago that was posted to the internet. It’s not even a particularly notable photo; it’s just Stokke fixing her hair at a track meet. But because Stokke is a fit and attractive girl, the photo got the attention of bloggers and forum posters, and within days Stokke’s picture was everywhere. Now she’s hounded by attention from photographers and media outlets all because of the photo:

“Even if none of it is illegal, it just all feels really demeaning,” Allison Stokke said. “I worked so hard for pole vaulting and all this other stuff, and it’s almost like that doesn’t matter. Nobody sees that. Nobody really sees me.”

We’ve gone over this territory before. It’s easier than ever for an embarrassing photo or a private video to be plastered across the web in a matter of days, and sometimes the side effects of that aren’t pretty. The issue is widespread enough that the Ad Council, an advertiser-supported non-profit advocacy group in the United States, created a public service ad campaign warning teens of the potential downsides to posting photos, videos and other personal information online. But the particular case of Allison Stokke seems slightly different.

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All About Shameless, Event Listings
Spring Fever, coming soon

Here’s the poster for our upcoming launch party. Spread the word!

Spring Fever! April 21st, 1-5pm @ NOW lounge (189 Church Street, Toronto)

All About Shameless
New Fall 2006 content

We’ve posted some more articles from the most recent issue of Shameless. Feast your eyes:

Miscellaneous
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Media Savvy, On The Job
“Just, whatever you do, don’t marry a woman with a career.”

Forbes appears to be in quite a spot of trouble after a controversial article from Michael Noer about the apparently dim prospect of marrying “career” women. The article, originally posted August 22 but subsequently taken down and reposted with a counterpoint,, contained some choice tidbits seemingly designed to raise the ire of working women everywhere:

While everyone knows that marriage can be stressful, recent studies have found professional women are more likely to get divorced, more likely to cheat, less likely to have children, and, if they do have kids, they are more likely to be unhappy about it. A recent study in Social Forces, a research journal, found that women—even those with a “feminist” outlook—are happier when their husband is the primary breadwinner.

“Those with a ‘feminist’ outlook” shot back in droves. Boing Boing archived parts of the article after Forbes took it down. The blog Pandagon saved the accompanying sidebar that still has not resurfaced on the website. Another blog, Feministe, fired off a point-by-point riposte. Jennifer Saylor took the simpler route of merely changing all the gender pronouns to create Don’t Marry Career Men. And Salon managed to elicit responses from the likes of Gloria Steinem and Travelocity CEO Michelle Peluso. Ah, but Jack Shafer at Slate would like to remind you that the article isn’t all that offensive, chastising women ready to “break their nails pounding out angry e-mails to me” while at the same time debunking some of Noer’s points. Maybe if he dropped the attitude his point would come across clearer.

This isn’t the first time one of Noer’s articles has come under fire. (While other bloggers have noted that “The Economics of Prostitution” was taken down along with “Don’t Marry Career Women,” it appears to be back on the Forbes site.)

All About Shameless
Summer 2006 issue is up!

New content from our latest issue, set to hit newsstands and mailboxes momentarily, is now up on the website! Check out the advice column on sexual harassment, which includes a page of additional resources that we couldn’t get into the print edition. We’ve also got this month’s mixtape courtesy of Controller.Controller’s Nirmala Basnayake, who not only sent us a pretty CD of her selections but also a set of liner notes. And of course there’s the monthly letter from the editors—this month, the eds look back at a glorious two-year reign.

In My Opinion...
“How do I explain feminism to my sister?”

AskMetafilter is the sister site to the massively popular community weblog Metafilter. It’s an advice site that covers a wide spectrum of topics, from “what laptop should I buy?” to “how do I come across as less condescending in e-mails?” to “are shifts in your political outlook inevitable as you get older?” Even if the question never gets answered satisfactorily, you can usually count on an engaging, intelligent conversation.

So, AskMetafilter, how do you explain feminism to your sister? A thread that reveals much about the state of feminism today.